“It felt like an interview.”
You ask questions and make conversation, but struggle to move beyond small talk.
PRIVATE DATING COACHING FOR MEN · MELBOURNE & AUSTRALIA-WIDE
Getting first dates but struggling to get second ones?
Stop guessing what went wrong. Start practising what you can improve. Build more natural conversations, express interest comfortably and work towards genuine connections — without pickup lines or pretending to be someone else.
One practical 75-minute online coaching session, a personalised 14-day action plan and two weeks of email support — A$299.
Free assessment · Email required for results.
Real practice. Personal feedback.At your pace. Without judgement.
Build genuine confidence
Have better conversations
Feel prepared for dates
Practise building connections
SOUND FAMILIAR?
First dates are happening. Why does the connection fade?
Maybe the conversation feels promising, but rarely goes further. Or maybe you want to feel more prepared for a first date in the first place.
“I thought it went well.”
The date seemed promising, but the other person didn't want to meet again — and you're left wondering.
“I get stuck in my head.”
You replay what you said and find it hard to show your personality or express interest naturally.
“I'd like to feel more at ease.”
Whether dates are rare or regular, you want to enjoy meeting someone instead of worrying how you come across.
Dating advice is everywhere. Practice is different.You can practise useful skills without changing who you are.
IMAGINE DATING FEELING DIFFERENT
Imagine feeling present on your next date — not stuck in your head.
You're sitting across from someone you'd genuinely like to know. Instead of searching for the perfect question, you're sharing stories, listening, laughing and noticing whether the interest feels mutual.
You can't control chemistry or whether there'll be a second date. You can work on feeling more at ease, communicating clearly and leaving without hours of second-guessing.
See how we practise these skillsBefore the date
Less time overthinking every message. A clearer plan and practical ways to manage nerves.
During the conversation
Better back-and-forth, more of your personality coming through, and room to notice mutual interest.
Whatever happens next
Feel more confident following up respectfully, whatever the other person decides.
These are goals we work towards, not guaranteed outcomes or promises of a relationship.
A GOOD PLACE TO BEGIN
Discover your Dating Presence Snapshot.
Eight short questions about conversation, being yourself, expressing interest and handling dating uncertainty. See a potential strength, an area to develop and a practical exercise you can try.
About 3 minutes Instant results Email to view results
A private self-reflection tool, not a diagnostic or scientifically validated personality test. Email required to see results.
HOW COACHING WORKS
Less advice. More useful practice.
Understand what feels difficult, practise a realistic moment and leave with a clear next step.
01
Understand where you are
Before we meet, you complete a short questionnaire so I can understand your goals and prepare for our call.
02
Practise together online
In a 75-minute video session, we identify your priorities and work through realistic situations with constructive feedback.
03
Take your plan into real life
Receive your written 14-day action plan within two business days, then practise with two weeks of follow-up email support.
OUR SIGNATURE EXERCISE
What if you could practise the conversation before your next date?
That's what our First Date Rehearsal is for. If conversation or connection is your main challenge, we can use part of your 75-minute online session to practise a realistic first-date moment and try it again with constructive feedback. It's an exercise within the session, not a separate date or appointment.
- Practise moving past small talk naturally
- Practise showing interest respectfully and naturally
- Get specific, constructive feedback
- Try again, with a little more confidence
A FIRST DATE REHEARSAL EXAMPLE
SCENARIO 01 Getting to know someone
THE MOMENT“The conversation is going well. How would you show you're interested without feeling awkward?”
WHAT WE PRACTISEYour response, your delivery, and ways to make it feel more natural.
The useful part is the feedback.Thoughtful feedback, practical adjustments and another chance to try.
ONE FOCUSED SESSION. A PLAN YOU CAN ACT ON.
The Dating Reset.
One session to work on the skills that could make your next date feel different. We'll focus on the parts you can influence — conversation, confidence, self-expression and navigating uncertainty.
Leave with direction, not just advice.
We'll work on one or two priorities and turn the conversation into specific things you can practise over the next 14 days.
01Understand the sticking point
Identify where you're getting stuck, without judgement.
02Practise, don't just talk
Try real conversation scenarios and get constructive feedback.
03Know what to do next
Take away a tailored plan and support while you try it.
THE DATING RESET · ONLINE ONLY
Practise better conversations. Leave with a plan.
A$299 one-off payment · AUD
A 75-minute private coaching session, with preparation, a personalised action plan and follow-up support.
EVERYTHING INCLUDED
- Pre-session questionnaire
Share your experiences, goals and biggest dating frustration before we meet. - Personal dating assessment
I'll review your responses and help you identify the areas most worth focusing on. - One 75-minute private online session
A private video call with targeted conversation practice, a short rehearsal where useful, and individual feedback. - Your personalised 14-day action plan
A written plan with exercises and next steps, sent within two business days after your session. - 14 DAYS OF PERSONAL EMAIL SUPPORT
Ask follow-up questions as you practise your new skills in real dating situations.
Online via video call. No guaranteed dates, matches or relationships. Booking and payment links are not yet connected in this preview.
WHAT YOUR SESSION ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE
75 minutes focused on your dating life.
It's a real coaching conversation, not a generic lecture. The outline adapts to your situation, but here's an example of how we might use the time.
Work out where you're stuck
We'll discuss your goals, what happens on first dates and the patterns you'd like to work on. Your pre-session questionnaire means we won't be starting from scratch.
Clear coaching priorities
Try real situations together
Practise moving beyond small talk, expressing interest, handling pauses or another relevant dating scenario. Receive constructive feedback and try again.
Practical techniques and rehearsal
Leave knowing your next steps
We'll agree on a few realistic things to work on. I'll send your tailored written 14-day action plan within two business days, then be available by email for follow-up questions.
Direction beyond the call
A REAL TAKEAWAY
Your personalised 14-day Dating Action Plan
Not an off-the-shelf PDF. Your written plan will summarise what we worked on, the exercises to try, and what to pay attention to as you practise.
Example activities are illustrative; your actual plan depends on your goals and circumstances.
Example: Two weeks of achievable steps
Days 1–3 Choose two topics or personal stories you'd enjoy sharing on a first date.
Days 4–7 Practise the ask–share–follow-up exercise in an everyday conversation.
Days 8–11 Practise showing interest or suggesting another meeting if it feels mutual.
Days 12–14 Reflect on what felt easier, what was uncertain and what to practise next.
YOU'RE NOT ON YOUR OWN AFTER THE CALL
14 days of personal email support.
It's often after the session that the useful questions come up: you've had a match, you're preparing for a date, or you're unsure whether to send a follow-up message.
The Dating Reset includes two weeks of direct email support so you can ask about situations as they happen and get guidance while you're putting your plan into practice.
14 days of follow-up email accessIncluded in your A$299 Dating Reset, starting from your coaching session.
Support is for relevant dating-coaching questions, not live chat, therapy or emergency advice. We aim to reply within two business days during the support period; exact fair-use boundaries will be provided before booking.
QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK AFTER YOUR SESSION
“I have a first date coming up. How can I get out of my head?”
“How can I move beyond small talk without turning it into an interview?”
“The date seemed to go well, but there wasn't a second one. How should I reflect on it?”
Personal guidance, with clear boundaries.
OUR PROPOSED CLEAR NEXT STEPS GUARANTEE
Leave with a plan you understand—or ask for your money back.
If you've completed the questionnaire, attended the session and received your written plan but still don't feel clear about your next steps, you can request a refund within 14 days of the session. The full terms must be finalised and provided before payment. This is additional to your rights under Australian Consumer Law.
A NOTE FROM YOUR COACH
Hi, I'm Chris.
I believe dating advice should feel like an encouraging, honest conversation — not a lesson in pretending to be someone you're not.
My aim is to give you a space where you can ask questions, practise awkward situations without embarrassment and get feedback you can actually use.
“We can work on your dating confidence without changing who you are.”
A FEW GOOD QUESTIONS
Know what you're getting before you book.
It's personal coaching. It's reasonable to want the details.
What if I already get first dates, but rarely second ones?+
That's a common reason to explore coaching. We can't know why any particular date didn't progress, but we can practise conversation, sharing your personality, expressing interest and managing nerves.
Is this really just one session?+
Yes. Dating Reset includes one private 75-minute online coaching session. You'll also complete a pre-session questionnaire and receive a personalised 14-day action plan plus 14 days of email support.
What if I don't know what I need help with?+
That's exactly what the questionnaire and initial conversation are for. We'll identify one or two useful areas to focus on, rather than trying to fix every dating challenge in 75 minutes.
What if I've never been on a date?+
That's okay too. Although we often talk about first-date conversations, we can use the session to practise meeting someone, asking questions or feeling more comfortable going on a first date — at your pace.
Is the First Date Rehearsal included?+
Yes. We can include a focused online rehearsal within the 75-minute session if first-date conversations are your priority. This offer does not include a separate in-person rehearsal or additional coaching sessions.
When do I receive my written plan?+
I'll send your personalised 14-day Dating Action Plan within two business days of your session, based on what we discussed and practised.
What does the email support include?+
You can ask reasonable follow-up questions related to your coaching and the 14-day plan during the support period, starting from your session date. This is not unlimited instant messaging; the proposed reply target is within two business days, with final fair-use terms confirmed before booking.
What if I don't feel clear about my next steps?+
The proposed Clear Next Steps Guarantee lets you request a refund within 14 days of your session if you've completed the questionnaire, attended the session and reviewed the written plan but still lack clarity. We'll publish final written terms before taking payments; your Australian Consumer Law rights still apply.
Will this guarantee me a second date?+
No. A second date depends on two people, and no coach can reliably know why someone did or didn't feel a connection. We focus on the communication skills and confidence you can practise, not promising outcomes.
How does the free introductory call work?+
It's a relaxed 15-minute suitability conversation so you can ask questions, hear how the session works and decide whether you'd like to proceed. No pressure to sign up.
Is the free assessment private?+
Your answers and score are calculated privately in your browser and are not sent to us. Before viewing your results, you'll enter an email address. When the site is connected to Netlify Forms, your email and separate marketing preference are stored securely so we can manage assessment enquiries. Promotional emails are optional and require you to tick the separate box. In a local file preview, the email is not saved.
SMALL STEPS MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Your next date could feel different.
You can't control whether the other person feels a spark. You can practise how you communicate, show interest and feel more comfortable being yourself. Start with the free quiz or the A$299 Reset.